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gr1m
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« Reply #15 on: August 14, 2006, 07:07:08 PM »

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I just suck on the follow through.

is that what the kids call it these days?

 Kiss

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« Reply #16 on: August 14, 2006, 11:24:59 PM »

Bill
I agree with the suggestions. I notice that in the past once you mention your daughter or ex it leads you to being mad and upset. No one, including you, want that. Work on yourself, make yourself happy and not want retribution and after quit a while you may see a change in your daughter, but you have to prove it over time. You know you can only change yourself. Others will respond to that. Keep it up.
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« Reply #17 on: August 15, 2006, 01:00:31 AM »

Some good suggestions here for you Bill.

The one that came to my mind was..during my divorce I was always going for rides and riding past his place to see if he was home...and I thought, this is sickening, why can't I stop doing this?  then someone posted that it takes two weeks to break a habit, ..the first few days were hard, but after the two weeks I didn't feel the urge to do it...so what I'm suggesting is..stop talking about your ex for two weeks, and after that you will find it easier to put her out of your mind..of course she will never be totally out of your mind, but maybe you won't be so angry when you talk about her.

We are all a work in progress, just some of us are having a tougher time of it!
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« Reply #18 on: August 15, 2006, 02:11:42 AM »

I heard it was three weeks.   Wink
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« Reply #19 on: August 15, 2006, 06:27:02 AM »

What I really want to happen to the ex and daughter is that they are struck with financial ruin like what those bastards let happen to me. I want to see them end up in a hotel with almost no money to their names. Then maybe they'll see the error of their ways and repent of their actions. Either that or some con artist cons them of all their worldly possessions and leaves them destitute like those cunts (yes that is what I think of them now) did to me. Did I deserve my daughter telling me she was going to send a card and then not even lift one of her wretched fingers to do it? NO FUCKING WAY!! I don't care what her feelings are. If she can't get off her dead stinking vagina and buy the fucking card then she is like her golddigging whore bitch mother. Case closed.
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« Reply #20 on: August 15, 2006, 07:01:35 AM »

You are wrong to have this amount of anger in this situation.

Ya know Bill, the birthday card I purchased for my Mom's birthday (her birthday was July 11th) is still sitting on my kitchen table.  I never sent it. Even without a card, my Mom knows that I love her and wish her a Happy Birthday.

Once again, your anger is unwarranted.  You need to put things into perspective. You are this angry about a card not arriving???

Work on your anger issues before you destroy your life (or someone elses)
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« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2006, 07:09:53 AM »

and Bill- You need to stop posting anything about your ex. You need to LET HER GO.

Letting go is an important part of the divorce process.  You can start by not mentioning her as the cause of *every* issue you encounter.

Letting go may also help you with your anger issues.  The card situation is a good example.

You didn't get a card, LET IT GO!!!

Let your therapist know that you need help to let go of your ex and your anger as its destroying your life.
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« Reply #22 on: August 15, 2006, 08:18:27 AM »

ahhh, there's the old bill back, the one we've come to know and despise

bill, you're the biggest, oldest tittybaby i have come across
they should revoke your man-card, put you in a crib and force you to watch your past life with your ex and your daughter forever

boo-fucking-hoo about the mf'n card, you big pussy

sh1t. if i were her, i'd change my name, dye my hair and disown you. you are scary. i don't ever wanna talk to you just based on what you write here. can't imagine what you must be like in person, but you need to be thrown out of your mommy's house and have your ass kicked for talking smack about 2/3 of the women in your life. wait a minute, you talk sh1t about all 3 women in your life.

asshole. what do YOU give them that they might want?

NOTHING but a foul mouth and stress, at least now you can't beat on 'em with your hands, they were smart and ran away to the other side of the country.

dick...

have a great day!




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« Reply #23 on: August 15, 2006, 08:26:52 AM »

Mornin' Grim Grin
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« Reply #24 on: August 15, 2006, 09:05:15 AM »

Bill
You did exactly what I suggested you don't do in my last post. I guess it was inevitable. I don't think you want to get over things. You would rather wallow in self pity forever.
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« Reply #25 on: August 15, 2006, 09:33:33 AM »

New day, same old posts. What a shock.  Sad
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« Reply #26 on: August 15, 2006, 10:11:03 AM »

Here ya go dude.

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« Reply #27 on: August 15, 2006, 10:16:24 AM »

If she can't get off her dead stinking vagina and...

You're pretty damn funny
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« Reply #28 on: August 15, 2006, 10:19:54 AM »

What I really want to happen to the ex and daughter is that they are struck with financial ruin like what those bastards let happen to me. I want to see them end up in a hotel with almost no money to their names. Then maybe they'll see the error of their ways and repent of their actions. Either that or some con artist cons them of all their worldly possessions and leaves them destitute like those cunts (yes that is what I think of them now) did to me. Did I deserve my daughter telling me she was going to send a card and then not even lift one of her wretched fingers to do it? NO FUCKING WAY!! I don't care what her feelings are. If she can't get off her dead stinking vagina and buy the fucking card then she is like her golddigging whore bitch mother. Case closed.

bill they are living in a one bedroom apt, hardly living the life of luxury.
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« Reply #29 on: August 15, 2006, 10:28:01 AM »

oh, I beg to differ. Any life away from Bill is a luxury life.


I suggest Bill go back to his old handle. It was much more accurate


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