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chill
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« Reply #30 on: November 17, 2009, 12:52:37 PM »
Quote from: chill on November 17, 2009, 02:29:39 AM
Are you taking your meds?  And when was the last time you went to your doctor?
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« Reply #31 on: November 17, 2009, 01:03:48 PM »
Quote from: chill on November 17, 2009, 12:52:37 PM
Quote from: chill on November 17, 2009, 02:29:39 AM
Are you taking your meds?  And when was the last time you went to your doctor?

Ditto Chill.  That's as important as anything else...
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H0$$
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« Reply #32 on: November 17, 2009, 02:35:16 PM »
Have you ever considered joining Dancers Anonymous?
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« Reply #33 on: November 17, 2009, 09:31:06 PM »
Quote from: Phoenix on November 17, 2009, 01:03:48 PM
Are you taking your meds?  And when was the last time you went to your doctor?

I will be meeting a counsellor for the first time after 15 years on Thursday. No, I didn't take drugs because I am scared of the zombie effect it had on a friend of mine. She walks around completely 'out of it'. I was scared of loosing my creative side so I didn't even start. I am about to get my fix in about an hour.

Thanks for keeping me sane today. I have two and a half more days before counselling so I am going to be here every hour of every day until I get the help I need. The worst time is between Wednesday morning and Friday night since I do not work with people at all. I am alone at home with nothing but reminders of my life the last 7 years. I wish I could burn them all but I need to keep all that we had done for the dance communities history's sake. I also need to start creating but I can't since I am all tapped out.

Gotta keep up the happy face for the public. Wished I never became a public figure. Too much stress and to much work trying to hide my true emotions. I will be forced to face them in a few days to tie up loose ends associated with the shows and planned shows for next year. I am under the gun to find a new partner and a new group of dancers to start choreography as soon as possible. Augh!
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TC
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« Reply #34 on: November 17, 2009, 09:41:08 PM »
When was the last time you did something you wanted to do just for you.....instead of always doing what you think others expect you to do?

Truth of the matter is, the others don't matter...this is YOUR life...not theirs...they have their own to live and the sooner you realize that, the sooner you will start on your journey to happiness.

Happiness comes from within....

TC
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« Reply #35 on: November 17, 2009, 09:44:40 PM »
Addictions come in many things, not just drugs or alcohol. An addiction to anything is bad, regardless of what it is. Think about it.
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« Reply #36 on: November 17, 2009, 09:47:42 PM »
Quote from: H0$$ on November 17, 2009, 09:44:40 PM
Addictions come in many things, not just drugs or alcohol. An addiction to anything is bad, regardless of what it is. Think about it.

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« Reply #37 on: November 17, 2009, 10:02:53 PM »
I always said if I was going to be addicted to anything it would be either fitness or housecleaning.  At least I'm really getting something out of the deal then Grin
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H0$$
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« Reply #38 on: November 17, 2009, 10:07:23 PM »
Let me know when you get addicted to house cleaning.....I'm not totally against re-marriage.  Grin
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« Reply #39 on: November 17, 2009, 10:09:16 PM »
And let me know how you get addicted to working out. I need that.
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Phoenix
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« Reply #40 on: November 17, 2009, 10:10:48 PM »
Dang, suddenly I'm popular.  Who knew.   Grin
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« Reply #41 on: November 17, 2009, 11:38:16 PM »
Quote from: Phoenix on November 17, 2009, 10:10:48 PM
Dang, suddenly I'm popular.  Who knew.   Grin
I just like you for your mind...... Grin
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« Reply #42 on: November 18, 2009, 07:43:41 AM »
You know, I'm going to pursue this housecleaning/exercise addiction thing....time to unleash the inner compulsive me...
couple that with my brilliant mind (and lost marbles) I'll be unstoppable....
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« Reply #43 on: November 18, 2009, 08:29:00 AM »
Quote from: ladybugcurley on November 17, 2009, 09:31:06 PM
No, I didn't take drugs because I am scared of the zombie effect it had on a friend of mine. She walks around completely 'out of it'. I was scared of loosing my creative side so I didn't even start. I am about to get my fix in about an hour.

Different meds affect different people differently. Just because your friend had a bad experience, doesn't mean you will. A LOT of people take various a/d meds w/o being zoned out.

How old are your kids? And how are they being affected by this situation? And, frankly, your addiction?
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« Reply #44 on: November 18, 2009, 01:38:38 PM »
Quote from: m_t on November 18, 2009, 08:29:00 AM
How old are your kids? And how are they being affected by this situation? And, frankly, your addiction?

Family is taking care of my son while I sort myself out. Master's program, Associates Program, Teaching and Workshops that I am involved in will cease by Dec. 16th and I hope to get back into being mom at that time. I do what I can when I have a clear mind ... pick him up from school, do some homework together, attend a science fair. go to see him at his awards night, etc.

I went dancing last night at a different county (45 minute drive) far from home to get away from dancers who know me or may inform my ex where I was. What are the chances of them showing up there right? Like I said in a previous post, strange things happen to me. 12 people showed up there too for the very first time, all from the city where I live. DANG! 4 more where from another county who knows me too.

I should move to antartica at this point.
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