Has anyone on this site have an ex who works in a school system, who has STRS (State Teacher Retirement System)? Here is the thing. I have a 403(B) and Social Security and my wife has STRS. My stbx and her attorney are saying that my 403(B) and the equity of the house cancel each other out. My 403(B) is a retirement plan and not a thrift plan. So she has close to $250,000.00 in her STRS, while I have (If it is still there when I retire) $76,000.00 in Social Security. She made a proposal that she would give me $25,000.00 in a lump sum. We have $62,000.00 in equity, so I deserve, by law, $31,000.00 plus $52,000.00 from her STRS. Does this make sense, or am I looking at this in the wrong manner. Shouldn't my retirement (403B) and social security be added and then subtract that from her STRS and then divide that? Let me know please. TG
I don't believe social security enters into a divorce settlement. That comes from the government, according to their rules, and neither you nor she have any control over it. Also she should have social security as well.
My thinking is that she owes you half of the DIFFERENCE between her STRS and YOUR 403B. What is the value of your 403B? If it's not a cash balance plan but more like a pension, you may have to hire someone to appraise its value.
And if she is keeping the house, she owes you half the equity of that as well. If you're keeping it, you owe her half of the equity.
One final wrinkle is that Ohio is apparently an "equitable distribution" state, which means that things don't HAVE to be divided evenly. My state is also, and I know of cases where the spouse who earned less asked for, and received, a 60/40 split. This may be in addition to, or instead of, alimony. You would need to consult with your lawyer as to whether you can make a case for more than 50%, and conversely whether your STBX can make a case for more than 50%.
What does your lawyer think of her offer?