I've already dropped 10grand (of my mothers$$) and the papers haven't been filed yet. I'm freakin' out. Everyone says you get what you pay for. I researched the guys court records. He's well known & appears to be worthy. One person who has used him told me to shut-up, let the man do his job. Just do what he says. ACKKK!
You can minimize some of the money being paid by taking a hard look at what's REAAAAALLY worth fighting for. Don't drop 10G on a divorce just because you think you "deserve half".