Help?

[barker2567]

I lost my job in Jan. after a downsizing in my dept. I was immediately hired but had a month period where I didn't get paid anything
I paid my childsupport still but not my arrearages($100) and I am without medical insurance until my 90 days is up at my new place of employment. My insurance was good until the beginning of march. I have tried to get my son on Allkids until my new insurance picks up but I haven't heard anything from them.(cobra is $680) that I don't have.
My ex says that I can't have my son now since I didn't pay the arrearages and the insurance. I currently have everything I own for sale to try to get everything I can caught up(in the divorce I got the unlucky 2 car payments).
What do I do. she says I can't see my son this is her reasoning for this weekends scheduled visitation.
Any one that can advise me what to do please help!!!
I live in Alabama so I am posting this on both sides any help would be well appreciated!!!

[Lee Borden]

If your description of the relevant facts is accurate and complete, your argument is more appealing than Mom's. Child support and child visitation are always independent of each other. By this I mean that it's never appropriate to withhold child support because visitation is denied, and it's never appropriate to deny visitation because the NCP isn't paying child support.

I'll leave it up to you what to do about it. It sounds as if you're just a week or two away from getting back on track as Mom has said you need to be. If so, prudence might mitigate in favor of just letting it go. If you're back on track, though, and Mom is still withholding visitation, you may have no choice but to file an enforcement petition.