can he force me to move out?

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I live in N.Y. I have no job,he always handled all the finances,he moved to Me. and left me here. Can he file and make me move out? I have one 15 yr. old left at home. Hes still paying for everything but who knows how long that will last. I want to know if they would make us sell,or if he still has to continue to pay since I have a minor at home. He started working in Me. around Sept. but didnt tell me he wanted a divorce till Thanksgiving.

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Get a lawyer and quick.  Borrow, beg for the money to retain one.

[Lee Borden]

There's not a quick, easy, or definite answer to your question. It depends on several facts about your marriage, including how long you and he have been married, who owned the house when you married, and whether the child you describe is yours only or yours and his together. Yes, you can hire a lawyer, but before you do, you may want to gather all the information you can for free on the Internet, so you can use the lawyer more efficiently.

[m_t]

You also need to seriously look at finding a job. I know this is a rough time, but if you have to make ends meet, there are jobs out there. At least to tide you over until March or so - that's when things start to gear up again.

And just for future reference for yourself & others regarding seasonal/holiday help... I know that we are always keeping our eyes on our holiday peeps, on the lookout for the one or two that we'd like to keep on afterwards. The ones we do are those who (a) don't call out or constantly try to find someone to take shifts for them, (b) come in on time, (c) actually work (you'd be surprised at how many don't), and (d) show some interest/initiative in doing more than the bare minimum. Do those, and it's not a stretch to be made permanent. That's really how you should look at ANY temp job you may take.

But at the end of the day, when you need to make money, there is no job too small or demeaning. And each one is a stepping stone to bigger and better things.